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There’s no shortage of articles on the internet that discuss the risks of sexting. One such article from Bolde, a site that focuses on women’s relationships and dating, warns female nude-senders that their “goodies” will likely end up in the hands of others in addition to the original recipient. They present this as a form of flattery, which is both toxic and audacious.
While it’s perfectly natural to feel turned on by someone’s naked body, it’s also important to remember that not everyone feels comfortable sharing their nudes with other people. Nude photos are personal and should only be shared with those who the sender trusts. If you want to ask a girl for nude photos, it’s best to do so respectfully and with patience. Be sure to avoid using suggestive emojis, like the thumbs up or kissing emojis, as these are likely to creep her out. Instead, opt for more innocent emojis, like the red heart emoji or smiley face.
In addition to being careful when asking for nude photos, it’s also important to make the most of alternative ways to get turned on and show a girl you care. These can include sending her a picture of herself in lingerie or telling her about a sexy fantasy you have. You can even try calling her and talking on the phone, which is a great way to experience a physical connection without being physically present.
Finally, it’s important to keep in mind that when you share nude photos with someone the power dynamics of your relationship may shift dramatically overnight. If you’re worried that an unhealthy partner will use these photos against you during arguments or after breaking up, consider taking a break from sexting for awhile.
