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Unless you’re a super model, it’s not going to be easy to find a woman who wants to send nudes to a stranger. And even if you are that girl, it might be better to hold off on asking for nudes until you have established more of a relationship.
Requesting nudes at first sight is an overtly sexual move that can set a sexy, potentially steamy tone for a relationship, especially when it happens on Tinder or in the DMs of a potential romantic partner. That kind of move might be fine if casual sex is all you’re after, but it could also give the person a more erotic intention than you have.
Plus, there’s always the risk of sending a picture to the wrong person. Revenge porn is real, and it can destroy a person’s life. It’s just not worth it.
It’s also important to remember that when a woman turns down your request for nudes, it’s not a rejection of you, personally. She may have many other reasons to decline your request that have nothing to do with her feelings for you, and she’s never obligated to explain those reasons to you. Just because she doesn’t want to send you nudes doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you or even think you’re hot, so don’t take it personally if she rejects your request. And if she does, it’s okay to let her know that she doesn’t have to send you photos anytime soon.
