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If you’re asking people to cuddle, then it’s probably safe to say that sex isn’t in the cards. However, it’s still important to be clear about what you want.
For example, if you’re really interested in sex, but are offering cuddling to get there, then the person will pick up on this discrepancy and will likely assume that there’s more to the offer than you’re sharing. It may be helpful to practice making clearer offers by inviting someone to cuddle while you’re at a party, or in a public park where you’ll have other people nearby who can rescue you in case things start going wrong.
Camgirl Talking About I Just Wanna Get Cuddled
Most cam sites are in business to make money by exploiting addictive behaviour. This is the same as a casino or video game where the majority of profit is generated by a small minority of addicts who keep spending tokens or making in-game purchases.
It’s possible that it’s not the sex you’re really concerned about, but the extra meanings you’ve attached to sex that are causing your sticking point. If you could release those attachments, then it might not be such a big deal that your cuddling sessions occasionally lead to sex. Then you can enjoy sex as just another pleasurable extension of your cuddling sessions, rather than seeing it as something that you’re “getting into”. This is a more relaxed attitude and one that many people will find easier to adopt.
