| submitted by /u/YourVirtualGF
In our current capitalistic society everything has a monetary value and female beauty is no exception. Men are used to getting their dopamine hits from pornography, flicking through girls on Tinder, and following attractive women on Instagram so it is a natural progression for them to pay a camgirl for her attention.
When a cam girl says she’s looking for a whale, she is referring to someone who is a high-tipper. They are the clients who are willing to buy her time and perks like jerking off instruction or beautiful agony.
But some of the whales that camgirls seek out are not just paying for a service; they’re buying a bond. They are the ones who want to feel she understands them and their problems. The bond that is established allows the cam girl to move on from conversation into sexting. They will then elicit the trust that enables her to extort money from her victims.